Don’t Just Teach Your Friends to Make Money Online. Partner with Them!
April 16th, 2007 by Joshua Dorkin | Filed under Blogging, Entrepreneurship, Making Money Online, Startup Funding.I recently read a webmaster forum post from a guy whose friends keep asking him to teach them how to make money online. There are a few approaches to take in this situation:
Three Approaches to Dealing With a Friend Who Wants Free Advice on Making Money Online
- Tell him to piss off and figure it out himself
- Be a good friend and actually help him out
- Scare him off by telling him how hard it is
The Fourth and Only Approach to Take In This Situation: Create a Partnership
While I’d typically reccommend the second approach listed above, there is actually a better route to take here. Instead of just giving away all the pearls of wisdom that you spent your hard time learning, do like they do in 24 . . . cut a deal!
How To Create An Online Partnership
- Convince your friend of your know-how and let them know that you can relpicate your previous successes
- Let them know that while you’d love to just give them all the knowledge you’ve gained, it would be easier if you partnered up
- Cut a deal. In exchange for you helping them create a successful online money-making website, you absolutely deserve a cut. It is up to you to negotiate your share based on your ongoing participation in the site, the work you put in to get them started, etc. For example, I’ve partnered with a friend on a blog site, where I am responsible for the setup of the site, maintenance, monetization, and publicity; he is responsible for content. We have come to a 50/50 arangement.
- Put everything in writing. Working with friends can lead to problems if expectations are not clear. In creating a contract for this partnership, consider the following questions (this is by no means comprehensive):
- What will each partner’s role be in the day to day care of the website? (consider little things like who wants to be woken up at 3 AM if the is a problem with the site)
- Do you want to create a company, which will own the site, or will it be in your names
- Who will be the registrant of record?
- Who will finance the site’s startup costs?
- How will expenses be covered?
- How will any income/profits be split?
- If sold, how will the proceeds be split?
- Once you’ve got everything in writing, be sure there is absolutely no debate over any of the expectations.
- Sign your partnership agreement and start making money!
If the online business is a success, you will both benefit. If the partnered site(s) is(are) better then any of your personal sites, then you won’t be kicking yourself in a jealous rage . . . you’ll be laughing all the way to the bank!


That’s a great idea. I’ve been helping friends set up sites, only to get nothing in return. Don’t know why I didn’t think of that.
Excellent idea! I actually thought about this earlier today before I signed in to DP. It would be such a great way for newbies, like me, and veterans to work together. The newbies can learn and the vets get some compensation too. Win-win! Drop me a note if you ever want a trainee who is ready to learn and eager to work hard.
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This can lead to all sorts of legal issues further down the line if you take the current situation with Facebook as a classic example.
I got a few PM’s from guys on several forums asking all these questions. And there was literally 50 per PM. And they wanted me to take a few hours out of my day and reply and they were rude aswell. I told them to do some more research and find there people skills.
I guess i did the same as you in a way.
Andy